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Am a contradiction of sorts. i love going out and having a good time with friends, and i can also stay home chill out over a book or a movie.. Am very passionate about writing, so give me a topic and watch me float away into wonderland... I Am crazy about music,books,friends and my doggie... :)

Monday, August 4, 2008

What the !@$%

Your damn right am hopping mad... Just read this ad in the classifieds of a useless magazine (i call it useless cos if they publish stuff like this, and they have trashy articles filling their pages, they are USELESS..hmfph) .. anyways, here is what i read.... Decide for yourself after reading if!!
" Wanted fair, good looking hindu vegetarian girl, between 6yrs and below 12 years of age, who studies well for foster care or adoption. Please contact..... "bla bla[.... cos i lost it about there and did not proceed to read further....].

Ok.... Now that is one interesting AD wouldnt you say?

This couple wants to care for a child
and are so f@#%% specific about it, they might as well bring home a stuffed doll and take care of it..

I mean... Good looking... Good at studies.... ya,right!!! i cant think of any 6-12yr old who would want to go to such a home where they are so stuck up...
here's a scene:

What if the girl they bring home is smart, and even a genius, but later on becomes a duh, dence character? does she get thrown out?

And what if the girl is not so smart now, but learns and catches on later... doesnt she deserve a chance as well???

Dont even get me started on the looks aspect....

i do understand someone wanting a girl between certain age group, or even Hindu vegetarian (to a certain extent) , but what are you trying to do??? how can you do this to kids who are homeless and just longing for some love and affection?? why do you take your class and distinction there as well??? Sigh!!

Ok, enuf ranting for one nite.. time to zzz now.. if i can!!!

have also written about it here

20 comments:

Rauf said...

ORTEE EEEEEEEEEEEE 2,30 in the morning and i want to place an ad, which magazine is that ?

i am 60 and i want to get married

wanted a 60 year old girl for a 60 year old gorilla looking man. don't mind two 30 year old girls, or three girls of 20. should be experts in climbing trees.

Vrij said...

Holy shit!!

Cant believe that those fuckin bozos cud actually release such an advert! And the mag prints it too... maybe someone shud forward it to the human rights commission.. or damn it coz they wont even act on it!

But I'm sure, some orphanage on earth might just be giving some 'finishing touches' to some kid to impress the prospective parents too.. sad country this is.

Veens said...

what a blasphemous mag!

I second Vrij, someone should forward this to the Human Rights Commission :-|

Chakoli said...

Eeeehhhhh!!

people are really sick ... :((

An dhw cud such ads be published i wonder..
dont people have nay regulation... :((

Lakshmi said...

I guess they meant someone who is smart and they would want to provide for education etc..language im sure is the issue..the intention may not be..sad if it is

homecooked said...

Oh my...where did u find this ad??? Normally you see these stereotyping in matrimonial! God help the kid they finally adopt.

Rauf said...

MORE ADS for you ORTEE




Hello To Viewers My Name is Shekhar , I am single i don't have female,
If anyone want to Marie to me u can visit to my home. I am not a good education but i working all field in bangalroe.. if u like me u welcome to my heart...when ever u want to meet pls visit my resident or send u letter.. Thanks yours Regards Shekhar ~*~
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i want very simple girl. from brahmin educated family from orissa state. she is also know about RAMAYAN, GEETA BHAGABATA, and other homework


(Homework?)

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Wants a woman who knows me better and can adjust with me forever. she may never create any difficulties in my life or her life by which the entire life can run smoothly. thank you

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she should be good looking and should have a service. she Should have one brother and one sister. she should be educated.

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I am a happy-go-lucky kind of person. Enjoys every moments of life. I love to make friendship. Because friendship is a first step of love. I am looking for my dreamgirl who will love me more than i. Because i love
myself a lot. If u think that is u then why to late come on ........hold my hand forever !!!

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i am simple boy.I have lot of problem in my life because of my luck now i am looking one gal she care me and love me lot lot lot

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i want a girl with no drinks if she wants she can wear jeans in house but while stepping out of house she should give respect to our cast

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HYE I AM A GOOD LOKING BOY,WHO HAS THE CAPABILITY TO MAKE ANY BODY TO
LOUG! H.I BELIEVE IN GOD AND ACCORDING TO ME FRIENDS ARE THE REAL MESSENGER OF GOD. THE 3 THINGS I AM LOOKING FROM A GIRL ,THEY ARE 1.THEY
MUST BELIEVE IN GOD.2. THEY HAVE TO LIKE MY PROFFESION AND THEY SHOULD
NOT GET BORED WITH ME WHEN I WILL TELL JOKES TRY TO MAKE THEM LOUGH.


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whatever she may be bu! t she should feel that she is going to be someone bride and she must think of the future life if she is too like this she would be called the woman of the lamp


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i love my patner i marriage the patner ok i search my patner and i love
the patner o! k thik hai the patner has a graduate ok

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HI IAM VERY COOL NUATHER OK MY HOBBY IS SEE T.V AND NEWS OK I HAVE 1 CAR
AND 1 BONWL OK MY MOTHER ALSO GOOD OK MY FARUET WORLD IS OK


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I am pran my family history my two brother two sister and Father& mother sister complitly marreed

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iam very simpel and hanest. i have three sister one brother and parent.
i am doing postal sarvice and tailor master my original resdence at kalahandi diste naw iam staing at rayagada dist.


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my name is muhamad and i am unmarried. pleaes you marrige me pleaes
pleaes pleaes pleaes pleaes pleaes pleaes


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I want one girl who ! love me or my mother. she love me heartly or she havea frank she's skin colour 'normal'not a black or not a whitey.
IThink the main think is heart if your heart is beautiful then you are beautiful.
but
iam not a handsome guy or not a good looking. but my Mom say that Iam a good guy. My father already expired . THE CHOICE IS YOUR.
bye bye.



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iam kanan. i do own businas.one sistar.he was marred.



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I AM LITTLE FAIR INDIAN COLOUR. I DON'T HAVE ANY HABIT.


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hello i am a good charactarised man. i want to run my life happily.i
divorced my first wife.her charactor is not good'. i expect the good minded and clean habits girl who may be in the same caste or other caste accepted ...


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my colour is black,but my heart is white.i like social service



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i'm looking out for who lives in bombay, girl simple who trust me lot should be roman catholic, LOVE ME ONLY.


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to be married on jan-2006. working woman perferable



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i would like a beautyfull girl. and i do not want her any treasure. because girl is the maharani.



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ssc failed three times and worked with privated ltd company which not paying salary at present.

vishesh said...

hmm...what do they want a child or do they want a puppet?

Aarthi said...

Wierd thou...

--xh-- said...

this is one of the weirdest classified ads I have seen lately...

Aaarti said...

@Raufee -well, i bet this magazing will sure welcome your ad and for all you know, you just mite find yourself in the arms of a tree climbing bimbette..hehehe...

And wat were u doing up at 2.30??? tsk tsk...

Aaarti said...

@Vrij - i know!! i was soo pissed off upon reading this ad, couldnt stop seething..infact everytime i think about, it makes me hopping mad.. how can people go around saying they wanna care for kids/adopt etc n then put an ad like this..

yeck.. the mag i knew was trash, useless, but this takes it to another level....

Aaarti said...

@Veens.. You betcha.. but its sad to see such people around!!

Aaarti said...

@Chaks... this magazine i know now cannot get any more yeck!!

Aaarti said...

@lakshmi - well, ya, i did think of that angle, how wrong use of words could be the reason.. but still it is out there.. and am sure the editor knows what it means(the words used) and the kind of impact it will have on people reading it..[unless all are like the morons who put the ad in the 1st place.. :)]

Aaarti said...

@Homecooked-
welcome here!!
well, i saw it in a woman's magazine..dont wanna reveal the name here... :)
i know, was telling gramma its bad enuf people desribe such atrocious things in a matri ad, but for a child? i hope the kid they see REJECTS them... would serve them right!!!

Aaarti said...

@Rauf-
You had me in splits with some of those ads.... :D
wacko stuff!!

Aaarti said...

@Vishesh - i have no clues.. i think they want one of those readymade all grown up kid, who they DONT really have to care for, but can go around telling others they are CARING/adopted a child!! my foot!!

Aaarti said...

@Aarthi - ya, i know.. very wierd!!!

@xh - oh,yes... but am sure there are others, just havent caught out eye...

Renu said...

sad to see such ads,but I am not shocked as ours is a country of contradictions, we worship ma durga, but leave our own mother to old age home, or burn our grihalakshmi for dowry.And gender bias is so seeped in our psyche that we may go the other extreme,like a mother of only daughters will always say-i dont miss not having a son,, for me my daughters are like ason, this is the other side of a bias, as a mother of son only will never hesitate to say that she misses not having a daughter, got my point?