Some people come into our lives and quickly go.  Some stay for a while, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever the same.  ~Flavia Weedn





There are childhood friends
There are friends
There are colleagues
There are partners [lovers, bf, gf, spouse]
and then there is family… 


do people change
do we change
do our expectations from them change
do circumstances change us/ them


they become distant
they don’t seem to care.. 
they go cold
we become cynical
we wonder if they care 


are we hallucinating?
are we expecting too much?
are we being unreasonable?
are they being unfair?
are they raising walls? 


we change
we withdraw
we go distant
we draw a shield around “me”
we know we have only “I”


No, am not hallucinating or i have not lost it.. but just been coming to terms with life and people around me…Realised that with every relationship there is a fine line, some more visible than others… and no one is really ours… are they?? 


What are your thoughts on this??? Do share…