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Am a contradiction of sorts. i love going out and having a good time with friends, and i can also stay home chill out over a book or a movie.. Am very passionate about writing, so give me a topic and watch me float away into wonderland... I Am crazy about music,books,friends and my doggie... :)

Saturday, December 11, 2010


Some people come into our lives and quickly go.  Some stay for a while, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever the same.  ~Flavia Weedn

There are childhood friends
There are friends
There are colleagues
There are partners [lovers, bf, gf, spouse]
and then there is family... 

do people change
do we change
do our expectations from them change
do circumstances change us/ them

they become distant
they don't seem to care.. 
they go cold
we become cynical
we wonder if they care 

are we hallucinating?
are we expecting too much?
are we being unreasonable?
are they being unfair?
are they raising walls? 

we change
we withdraw
we go distant
we draw a shield around "me"
we know we have only "I"

No, am not hallucinating or i have not lost it.. but just been coming to terms with life and people around me...Realised that with every relationship there is a fine line, some more visible than others... and no one is really ours... are they?? 

What are your thoughts on this??? Do share... 


Nothing but "Ficus" said...

Sometimes we build walls not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break the wall and come in :)

Also a line by Baz Luhrmann: Understand that friends come and go, but to the precious few you must hold on.

I think this has to do with growing up, that we realize everybody becomes more involved in their own lives, than ours. Sometimes, its we that has to go the distance to hold on to whatever we think really matters. Usually, its the friends we made very early in life.

Anonymous said...

/*some more visible than others... and no one is really ours... are they?? */

Very true.. you have written it beautifully :) :)

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